Friday 28 August 2015

Things you should not be judged for. 

Lately, we are constantly made to feel the need to apologize for every and anythin, even for being true to ourselves. There are things that you definitely don't have to be judge for........ EVER

1. You really shouldn't be judged for putting yourself first after all, this world is a survival of the fittest. Self interest should really come first before second of third-party interest, cause really, you should not displease yourself at the instance of others, you owe it to yourself to love, respect, and and give yourself the very best before learning to do unto other!

2. You shouldn't be judged for being emotional, fearful and weak, yes I'm a feminist. But I think what makes feminism so encompassing, is actually acknowledging and appreciating the fact that as long as there are really strong and fearless women out there, there really and the weak and fearful ones too. So wherever you belong as a woman, you should never apologize for being that way, because really, that's what makes you you.

3. You should never be judged about your past, if a person genuinely likes then your past should not be an hinderance, because it really is in the past. And you should never be held ransom for the things you did in the past and even if you are, own up to it but never apologize

4.  Never feel judge for the way you look, are you plum, thin, short plus-size or what have you, just as you have no hands in picking who your parents are, the way you look is equally out of your control. You own no one, I mean no one, not even yourself an explanation or excuse for how you look.

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